Couples Therapy

If your relationship is not where you want it to be, you aren’t sure how to make it better or even if you even want to, couples therapy is the best next step. Even if you ultimately decide that you want to end the relationship, couples therapy helps you to understand yourself and your partner and make better, well-thought-out choices.

Couples therapy helps individuals rebuild a relationship together by providing tools for better communication, resolving conflicts and differences and even helps keep you on track when you argue.

There are many causes for stress in a relationship. Sometimes there are specific issues such as an affair, sexual difficulties, conflicts about child rearing, cultural differences, blended families. Other times there is a gradual fading of romance, a lack of interest and caring, a case of two people growing more and more distant.

Some partners hope that relationship problems will disappear. Left on its own a bad relationship usually gets worse and creates additional stress and unhappiness for each of the partners. Children, family members and job performance outside of the marriage can suffer as well when a relationship is in trouble.

Marriage therapy can help couples that plan to marry to resolve differences before the wedding. It is useful as well for couples wanting to strengthen their bond and understand themselves and each other better.

If your partner refuses to attend couples therapy sessions, go on your own. You can benefit from learning more about yourself and your relationship. Change in one partner always affects the whole relationship. They may even see the change that you have made in your own self and want to change for themselves as well.

Family Therapy

 As a family therapist I am trained from a relational perspefamily therapy bottomctive which incorporates the family system into the therapeutic work along with extensive psychotherapy training. Many mental health professionals recognize the necessity of working with mental and emotional problems within the context of the family. Research has shown that family therapy interventions are as effective and sometimes more effective than other interventions used in psychotherapy.

 

Family Therapy

Can serve clients struggling with:

  • Communication problems
  • Anger and Arguing
  • Depression and Anxiety
  • Trauma
  • Family and Relationship dynamics
  • Blended Families
  • Parenting Issues
  • Premarital counseling
  • Work Stressors
  • Grief and Loss Issues
  • Major Life Transitions
  • Changing roles (ie. new parents, going back to work)

Parenting Struggles

When working together on parenting issues, I can offer you some guidelines that help you to:

  • Learn realistic and practical approaches to dealing with your children
  • Set appropriate limits
  • Develop methods of discipline that foster responsibility
  • Encourage open and respectful communication
  • Build your child’s confidence and feelings of self worth family therapy top